Early bird catches the worm…
Why “The Stiletto Mum” you ask… Well yo tell you that I will have to start at the beginning.
I’m first blog was called “Imperfect Mom” because I didn’t and still don’t believe I am perfect.
The second blog was “Scaredmom”. Now this was true, I just had my second out of wedlock baby with a different man than the first and I was scared. I wasn’t sure that I could manage one child and now I had two. I learnt a lot about myself and blogging in the 2 years that I was “Scaredmom”.
But then I realised I am not longer scared of being a mom and a changed was needed. I spent weeks thinking about a new blog name and I came up with “Life UnXpected” because life happens when you least expect it. But sadly it wasn’t me. I went back to being scared mom and then one day Cupcakemummy and I chatted about the fact that I need a life make over.
I just broke up with Lorelai’s father I was single and not scared and to start a new life I needed a new name that goes with my lifestyle.
My fourth blog was born.
Enter “The Stiletto Mum”
Since the day my first post went live, I realised this is who I was always meant to be. That the last 6 years of parenting had moulded me to be who I am today.
I love Stilettos, I will spend my last couple of bucks on a great pair of shoes and use them as mommy walking shoes.
The Stiletto Mum is who I am and its who I will always be.